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- The Archangel Centers is a licensed outpatient addiction treatment provider.
- The Archangel Centers operates clinics in Tinton Falls, NJ and Charlotte, NC.
- Family therapy is part of the outpatient continuum at The Archangel Centers.
- Medication-assisted treatment (MAT) includes Suboxone, Vivitrol, and Sublocade.
- The Archangel Centers works with most major commercial insurance plans with free benefits verification.
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Addiction rarely lives in one person. It lives in a family system. The patterns that surround a person's substance use, the enabling, the confrontation, the silence, the codependency, the withdrawal of contact, are not separate from the addiction; they are part of it. Family therapy in SUD treatment works with that reality. The client is not the only one in the room because the client is not the only one affected, and not the only one capable of changing the pattern.
This page covers what family therapy looks like at The Archangel Centers, the models used in SUD-specific family work, and what families can expect from the process.
What family therapy is, in addiction treatment
Family therapy in SUD treatment is structured clinical work between the client, one or more family members, and a licensed therapist. The goals usually include:
The work is not about assigning blame for who caused the addiction. It is about identifying what the system can change to support a different future.
- Repairing trust where harm has occurred
- Establishing or restoring healthy communication
- Setting clear boundaries that support recovery, on both sides
- Reducing patterns that maintain the addiction (enabling, control, distance, blame)
- Educating the family about addiction as a medical condition
- Building a sustainable plan for the family system going forward

Family programming at The Archangel Centers
Family work at The Archangel Centers is, founder, and includes:
Family programming runs alongside, not after, the client's primary treatment. The strongest predictors of sustainable recovery often live in the family system.
- Family therapy sessions scheduled with the client's assigned primary therapist
- Family support program participation in New Jersey for ongoing family members
- Therapist progress updates to designated family members, with the client's signed release
- Family alumni programming, for families that remain engaged after the client's acute treatment phase
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Evidence-based family approaches in SUD
Several family therapy models have specific evidence in addiction treatment:
Family Behavior Therapy (FBT)
Behaviorally oriented; uses contingency contracts and skill-building with both the client and family.
Behavioral Couples Therapy (BCT)
For couples in which one partner has an SUD, BCT has some of the strongest evidence in the literature for both reducing substance use and improving relationship satisfaction.
Multidimensional Family Therapy (MDFT)
Developed for adolescent SUD; works across multiple family domains.
Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT)
A non-confrontational evidence-based approach that trains family members in behaviors that increase the likelihood the loved one enters treatment. See also our intervention page.
Structural Family Therapy and Bowen Family Systems
Broader systemic frameworks that are often integrated into SUD-specific family work.
The Archangel team draws from these frameworks in clinical practice, tailored to the family in the room.
Family roles in addiction
Family systems often organize around addiction in identifiable roles, originally described in the family therapy literature. These are not character types; they are positions in a system. Common ones include:
These roles can persist long after the addiction itself has changed. Family therapy works on the roles, not on judgments of the people occupying them.
For more, see family roles in addiction.
- The Enabler / Caretaker, who softens consequences, hides the problem, manages the practical fallout
- The Hero, who overcompensates with achievement to balance the family
- The Scapegoat, who absorbs the negative attention and may develop their own substance or behavioral problems
- The Mascot, who uses humor or charm to defuse tension
- The Lost Child, who withdraws and goes unnoticed

Boundaries in family work
A boundary is a description of what you will and will not do, told to others so they can make informed decisions. It is not a punishment or a threat. Effective boundaries in a family with addiction usually:
Family therapy includes structured work on identifying, communicating, and maintaining boundaries that support recovery on both sides.
- Are concrete and specific (not "you have to change" but "I will not respond to calls after midnight")
- Apply to the boundary-setter's own behavior (what you will do), not to the loved one's behavior (what they must do)
- Are sustainable over time (no boundary you cannot keep is useful)
- Are communicated clearly, not used as ambushes
Licensed clinicians. Evidence-based modalities.
Treatment integrates cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), motivational interviewing, narrative therapy, and trauma-informed care with EMDR available in individual therapy. The medical provider manages MAT (Suboxone, Vivitrol, Sublocade) and psychiatric medications when indicated.
Intake uses the full evidence-based battery: ASAM Criteria, LOCUS for mental health acuity, PHQ-9, GAD-7, the Columbia Suicide Severity Rating Scale, plus biopsychosocial, nutrition, and pain screens. The assessment drives the treatment plan from day one.
See Our ModalitiesConfidentiality and consent in family work
Family therapy sessions and any communication between the clinical team and family members happen with the client's written release under HIPAA and 42 CFR Part 2. The client decides what is shared and with whom. Families do not have unrestricted access to the client's clinical record without the client's consent.
See the HIPAA Notice of Privacy Practices for the broader framework.
When family work is harder
Family therapy is not equally applicable in every situation. Specific considerations:
These considerations shape the clinical plan; they are not reasons to skip family work.
- Active abuse or violence in the family. Safety planning takes priority. Family therapy may not be appropriate while the danger is active.
- Estrangement. When the client and family have not been in contact for years, family work may not be feasible or appropriate. The work shifts to processing the estrangement itself.
- A family member with active untreated SUD or severe mental illness. The treating team adapts the work to what is clinically feasible.
- Children in the family. Children of parents with SUD may benefit from their own age-appropriate clinical support, sometimes within the family work, sometimes separately.

Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to involve my family?
What if my family is the reason I started using?
Can family members get their own therapy?
What about Al-Anon or Nar-Anon?
Can family therapy happen virtually?
Will the therapist tell my family things I said in individual sessions?
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“I came back from rock bottom. I'm here because I want to show others they can too. This isn't just a business. It's my mission.”- Mike Sorrentino, Founder
Mike and Lauren Sorrentino did not set out to build a generic treatment center. They wanted a recovery-grounded program that mixes lived experience, licensed clinical expertise, and family programming that actually moves the needle for the people who love someone in active addiction.
The clinic that resulted is small enough that each client knows their primary therapist by name, but resourced enough to deliver the full ASAM continuum from Partial Care through outpatient continuing care, with MAT and EMDR available when clinically indicated.
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