When a loved one enters a Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) for addiction treatment, it can bring a mix of relief and uncertainty. You want to be supportive, but you also don’t want to enable behaviors that could derail their recovery. At Archangel in New Jersey, we understand how challenging this journey can be for both individuals in treatment and their families. Reach out today at (888) 464-2144 to learn more!
So, how can you offer meaningful support without unintentionally enabling addiction? Here’s what you need to know.
Understanding PHP and the Road to Recovery
A Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP) provides structured, intensive treatment for addiction while allowing individuals to return home or to a sober living environment at the end of the day. PHP offers medical support, therapy, and holistic care, making it an essential step toward long-term recovery.
At Archangel in New Jersey, we specialize in treating various substance use disorders, including:
✔ Opiate Addiction
✔ Benzodiazepine Addiction
✔ Alcohol Addiction
✔ Stimulant Addiction
✔ Prescription Drug Addiction
✔ Polysubstance Abuse
✔ Detox & Withdrawal Management
With expert medical care and personalized therapy, PHP provides the structure needed to break free from addiction. However, family support plays a critical role in ensuring long-term success.
Understanding Levels of Care & How to Support Your Loved One
When it comes to addiction treatment, there are different types of programs based on how much support a person needs. Two common options are Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHPs) and Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOPs).
PHPs are more structured and intensive. They’re best for people who need a lot of help and supervision during the day but can still go home at night.
IOPs are a step down, offering support and therapy but with more flexibility. These programs work well for people who are a little further along in recovery and don’t need as much hands-on care.
Types of Therapy & Support
Both programs use proven therapy methods like:
- Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – Helps change negative thinking patterns.
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) – Teaches healthy ways to handle emotions.
Motivational Interviewing – Encourages people to stay committed to recovery.
Ways to Support Your Loved One Without Enabling
1. Set Healthy Boundaries
One of the biggest challenges loved ones face is distinguishing between support and enabling. Setting firm yet compassionate boundaries helps encourage accountability. Some examples include:
- Not giving money that could be used for substances
- Avoiding covering up or making excuses for their behavior
- Encouraging independence instead of fixing problems for them
2. Educate Yourself About Addiction
Understanding the disease of addiction can help you navigate your role in your loved one’s recovery. Learn about triggers, relapse warning signs, and the importance of medical detox, therapy, and aftercare.
3. Encourage Their Commitment to PHP
Reinforce the importance of consistent attendance in therapy sessions and treatment programming. Help them stay accountable by:
- Checking in with their progress (without being overbearing)
- Expressing pride in their commitment to recovery
- Encouraging them to discuss challenges with their therapist
4. Offer Emotional Support Without Enabling
Being there emotionally doesn’t mean fixing everything. Instead of trying to remove obstacles, provide encouragement and active listening. Phrases like:
- “I believe in you, and I know recovery isn’t easy.”
- “I’m proud of the progress you’re making.”
- “I’m here to support you, but I can’t do the work for you.”
5. Take Care of Yourself, Too
Supporting a loved one in addiction recovery can be emotionally exhausting. Consider attending family therapy or support groups like Al-Anon or Nar-Anon to maintain your own well-being.
6. Help Them Plan for Life After PHP
PHP is just one step in the journey. Encourage continued outpatient treatment, sober living options, and long-term recovery strategies to maintain sobriety.
Final Thoughts: Be Supportive, Not Enabling
Supporting a loved one in PHP is about providing encouragement, setting boundaries, and promoting independence. At Archangel in New Jersey, we offer specialized addiction treatment, including detox, PHP, and outpatient programs, to help individuals reclaim their lives.
If your loved one is struggling with addiction, we’re here to help. Contact Archangel today to learn more about our evidence-based treatment programs and how we can support your family’s healing journey. Reach out today at (888) 464-2144 to learn more.
